Treatment
- Go to a safe environment.
- Contact someone you trust.
- Contact a rape crisis hotline in Illinois.
- Visit your local Emergency Department for possible injuries.
- Submit to a medical examination to collect evidence (also known as a rape kit).
- Contact the police to report the assault.
- Medical forensic services for injuries;
- Emergency contraceptives;
- Rape crisis counseling.
Under the amendments made to SASETA, institutions providing healthcare (hospitals, laboratory, pharmacy, physicians, etc) and follow-up services to sexual assault survivors are prohibited from:
- Harassing, intimidating, or contacting sexual assault survivors about for service payments;
- Contacting the survivor for anything related to the incurred bills or portions of it;
- Hiring collection agencies or attorneys to collect from the survivor;
- Ruining a survivor’s credit rating; and
- Conducting other steps that will adversely impact the survivors and their families.
You may also check this list of organizations in Illinois per county for information or assistance following an assault. The ICASA has a rape crisis center navigation system specifically in the Illinois area on their website.
Prevention
Practicing Societal Norms against SV according to the Centers for Disease Control And Prevention (CDC):
- Bystander Approaches. Includes steps in changing societal norms surrounding the topic of SV through engagement and leadership. These approaches primarily target the youth by adopting and promoting behaviors to help detect problematic behavior, take appropriate steps, and effectively intervene.
- Mobilizing men and boys as allies. Approaches are primarily developed for men and boys to realize their roles in preventing SV and supporting victims while ingraining skills and norms to prevent their perpetration.
- Communication. Building healthy rapport with your children will help them open up to you especially when they feel discomfort or notice inappropriate behavior. Listen to them. The key to communication is being honest, respectful, and developmentally-appropriate.
- Be involved in your child’s life. Ask them about their daily interactions and the people they’re interacting with without being intrusive. Know who they spend the bulk of their time with at school and outside.
- Teach your child about healthy sexuality. As a parent or guardian, you must learn age-appropriate sexual behaviors and discuss this with the child. Use correct terms for body parts and answer questions properly and accurately. This will help them identify proper and improper behavior before or when it happens.
- Establish consistent rules and boundaries. Teach your child about boundaries, consent, and privacy. Make sure that they follow the same rule outside of your home and let people who interact with them know about these boundaries and when you notice violations. It goes without saying that you must follow your own rules to set a good example.
- Choose their caregivers. Ask for multiple character references, if possible, and ask about their performance and interactions. Ask for a background check. Although background checks aren’t reliable due to low reporting of SV, this may still help to weed out your candidates. Use the National Sex Offender Public Website (NSOPW).
- Observe, intervene, and speak up. Being attentive to your child’s life is important in keeping an eye out for potential concerning events or behaviors. Ask your child questions properly and talk about safety. Ask about your child in school and other places they may frequent. Use a safe word to alarm you of emergency or uncomfortable situations.
Positions of Power
Obstacles for minorities in seeking help
While persons of color (POC) have community-specific barriers in seeking for help following incidents of SV, there are common denominators:
- Distrust for law enforcement, justice system, and social workers;
- Cultural and/or religious beliefs tying victims to abusive relationships;
- Strong loyalty to family, culture, and race;
- Lack of culturally and linguistically appropriate services;
- Lack of service-provider representative that look like them or share the same experiences;
- Distrust due to racism and classism in US’ history
- Racial stereotyping by providers;
- Attitudes and stereotypes on SV and domestic violence in the community;
- Citizenship of the victim and/or abuser in the country.
Deciding whether to pursue legal action against your abuser or not should be your own. Despite the complexities of the system, know that you’re not alone and that it’s possible to hold your perpetrators accountable, even big time institutions. Our sexual abuse attorneys here at America’s Consumer Lawyer will help you navigate your legal battle while respecting and maintaining your privacy and space.