According to the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN), the US government responds to reports of sexual abuse every 9 minutes. Red flags in children, teens, and young adults may differ and overlap. For children, here are potential manifestations of abuse.
- Difficulty sitting and walking;
- Bleeding, redness, or rashes in the genital area;
- Painful bowel;
- Frequent urinary tract infection (UTI);
- Frequent headaches or stomach aches;
- Bruises in the inner thighs and genitals or breasts;
- Unexplained anal or vaginal bleeding, irritation, or pain;
- Sexually transmitted disease (STD); and/or
- Pregnancy.
- Regressive behavior or using old behaviors like bedwetting;
- Age-inappropriate sexual behavior;
- Excessive talk on sexual topics;
- Refusing to remove clothing or being left alone;
- Refusing to talk;
- Change in mood (increased aggression) and eating habits;
- Lost of interest in friends, hobbies, school;
- Self-harming ;
- Low self-confidence;
- Unexplained health problems like stomach upsets and headaches; or
- Nightmares.
- Signs of depression, like withdrawing from usual activities and persistent sadness;
- Eating problems, overeating or lack of appetite;
- Signs of physical abuse, like bruises;
- Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and/or other genital infections;
- Failing grades;
- Suicide ideation and suicidal behavior;
- Decrease in self-care and/or hygiene; or
- Alcohol or drug use.
- Signs of depression,
- Low self-confidence;
- Sexually transmitted infection (STIs);
- Sudden anxiety over things that didn’t trigger anxiety before;
- Avoidance of places and people;
- Withdrawal from usual activities;
- Failing grades; and/or
- Increased alcohol or drug use.
- Recent difficult in walking or sitting;
- Bruises in the inner thighs and genitals or breasts;
- Torn or stained undergarments;
- Unexplained sexually transmitted disease or genital infections;
- Unexplained anal or vaginal bleeding, irritation, or pain;
- The elderly’s report of the abuse.
- Withdrawal from socialization;
- Agitation;
- Onset of panic attacks and other PTSD symptoms;
- Unusual conduct between the victim and abuser; and
- Suicide attempt.
- Eating disorders;
- Sexual dysfunction;
- Depression;
- Suicide ideation;
- Stress and anxiety;
- Dissociation; and/or
- Interpersonal relationship problems.